Hi, I would like this translated for the purposes of a tattoo. The pain I'm referring to is the mental pain of loss. Both love and loved ones, and the strength that allows you to endure and become better. I am male. I have checked some of the online translators and, as you have mentioned, they're all different, and probably wrong. I took Latin in high school but was barely able to survive one semester. Ironically, I'm still friends with my Latin teacher. And if he should ever see this tattoo on me, I want it to be correct.